July 05, 2010

Relationship Talk: The Other Woman - Is it okay to date while your separated and waiting for a divorce?


The most recent case of husband stealing, surrounds multi-talented, Alicia Keys. Who was always looked at as a good, down-to earth humanitarian who had nothing but, good things to offer to her fans and the public. Alicia was one that rarely had any bad publicity for most of her career until this "Superwoman" had "Fallin" into some "Unbreakable" love in the "Streets of New York" and now has done the "Unthinkable". Things have now seemed to simmer down, between Alicia's fiancee, Swizz Beats and his now ex- wife, Mashonda. But, Alicia is now being labelled the other woman or even worse a homewrecker. The story that both Alicia and her fiancee are sticking to is that the relationship between Swizz and Mashonda, had already ended when Alicia entered the equation. There are a lot of different opinions on the situation but, if Swizz clearly stated that the marriage was over and he and Mashonda were separated; is he not allowed to meet other people? Usually, that is exactly what happens when someone leaves a failed relationship. They go out and start dating again. Ultimately it is his decision to make if he wants to start dating or not. Is it really infidelity at that point? Now that I think about it, as long as the divorce papers are not final you still are technically married. In Hollywood, there has been some highly publicized spouse swapping, like Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott, who were still married to other people, when they selfishly decided to get engaged. Also, country singer LeAnne Rimes and CSI Miami's Eddie Cibrian also had an affair and then divorced their partners for each other. They are currently no longer together.These people clearly are classic examples of what insensitivity is and they are simply spoiled and expect to get what they want no matter who they hurt. Let's just hope for these couple's that they don't suddenly get another urge to swap out wives or husbands for new ones.

Couples Tori & Dean (left) Eddie & Leann (right)

1 comment:

  1. Most of the relationships start because marriage is not possible or not desired at that point of time, but living and exploiting someone only for fun is not called for at all. Anyway,will certainly visit your site more often now.

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