July 10, 2010

Relationship Talk: Have you ever been unsure about where your relationship is going?


Have you ever felt unsure about where your relationship is going; or if you're even with the right person? Well, if you have don't be alarmed by you questioning thoughts because many individuals in relationships ponder the same questions everyday. Relationships naturally grow into different stages of commitment. Of course there is no great big rule book which dictates when certain steps have to be taken, but naturally as human beings in a growing relationship, certain changes happen. A lot of relationships are not operating in unison, meaning the individuals are not on the same page. You may know exactly what you want out of the relationship but the other person may not be in the same frame of mind. Ideally, when you fall in love you expect that the other person is in love with you too, but that may not be the case.True love is from the soul and spirit and it's only felt when there is a genuine connection between two souls, so real unconditional love does not exist until both souls connect, hence the term soul mate. Choosing the person that you will spend a lifetime with is probably the biggest decision you will ever make. If you are at a point, where your thinking long-term consider these things; communication is probably the most important thing you could do to clear up any uncertain questions by letting the other person know exactly what you want and if your not in the same ballpark with your goals, then you may need to re-analyze your compatibility.

3 comments:

  1. Mizz White, theis is a darn good post. I am feeling this right now. When you are in a relationship, you really don't if your feelings are felt by others. This post lets me know that I am not alone. Only big problem is what is the best move to make. lol.

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  2. The best thing to do is be real and straight up about your uncertainty and the only way to do that is to communicate. Finding out how the other person really feels is the best way to clear up any uncertainties and then you can decide on what is best for you at that point. The other person might also be feeling the same way as you are and by you asking you begin the open the door to communication in your relationship. You have to prepare yourself for the answer, whether good or bad at that point. So, please make sure that you are emotional and mentality ready to hear the truth at that point.

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  3. I am glad you enjoyed the post by the way! keep coming back!!

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